Ruled by the Strength of Inner Conviction ~ Bob Caldwell













Ruled by the Strength of Inner Conviction

Proverbs 25:28 Whoever has no rule over his own spirit Is like a city broken down, without walls.

To master yourself is the first and most important task of life. This feat requires a recognized dependency upon God to enable us to discipline our lives to follow the wisdom of God. In this collection of proverbs, we are given a portrait of the end result of those who have disciplined themselves to follow the wisdom of God and those who by contrast live as victims of forces that doom a person to tragic failure.

The discipline of hard work promises great reward for our labor. For the lazy, all we have to look forward to is poverty and shame (24:27-34, 26:13-16). For those who have come under the rule of righteousness, they will not quit even if they failed at something seven times (24:10, 16). The discipline of strengthening our character will not let us quit until God has enabled us to conquer the sins or obstacles we must overcome by His strength. In like fashion, it's the person who had authority over his tongue who not only has a rich life and also enriches all who hear him. By contrast, it is the fool whose loose tongue that leaves a trail of gossip, hurt, and trouble (25:11-12, 15; 26:18-25).

You may ask, where do we get such power? The power to rule over our lives to God's glory and our ultimate benefit is found in God the Holy Spirit. It is God's Spirit within our spirit that enables us, "to be strengthened with might through His Spirit in the inner man" (Eph. 3:16).

When your inner being is ruled by God's Spirit, it then becomes possible for God's Spirit within you to rule over any area of your life. God's Spirit can conquer a lazy spirit within you. God's Spirit can rule over your rebellious, hurtful tongue.

Learn to yield your spirit to God's Spirit and you will have the power to rule all things. It is only those under the rule of God that will ever be truly able to rule over themselves.


Proverbs 24:1-26:28

1 Do not be envious of evil men,
Nor desire to be with them;

2 For their heart devises violence,
And their lips talk of troublemaking.

3 Through wisdom a house is built,
And by understanding it is established;

4 By knowledge the rooms are filled
With all precious and pleasant riches.

5 A wise man is strong,
Yes, a man of knowledge increases strength;

6 For by wise counsel you will wage your own war,
And in a multitude of counselors there is safety.

7 Wisdom is too lofty for a fool;
He does not open his mouth in the gate.

8 He who plots to do evil
Will be called a schemer.

9 The devising of foolishness is sin,
And the scoffer is an abomination to men.

10 If you faint in the day of adversity,
Your strength is small.

11 Deliver those who are drawn toward death,
And hold back those stumbling to the slaughter.

12 If you say, "Surely we did not know this,"
Does not He who weighs the hearts consider it?
He who keeps your soul, does He not know it?
And will He not render to each man according to his deeds?

13 My son, eat honey because it is good,
And the honeycomb which is sweet to your taste;

14 So shall the knowledge of wisdom be to your soul;
If you have found it, there is a prospect,
And your hope will not be cut off.

15 Do not lie in wait, O wicked man, against the dwelling of the righteous;
Do not plunder his resting place;

16 For a righteous man may fall seven times
And rise again,
But the wicked shall fall by calamity.

17 Do not rejoice when your enemy falls,
And do not let your heart be glad when he stumbles;

18 Lest the LORD see it, and it displease Him,
And He turn away His wrath from him.

19 Do not fret because of evildoers,
Nor be envious of the wicked;

20 For there will be no prospect for the evil man;
The lamp of the wicked will be put out.

21 My son, fear the LORD and the king;
Do not associate with those given to change;

22 For their calamity will rise suddenly,
And who knows the ruin those two can bring?

Further Sayings of the Wise

23 These things also belong to the wise:
It is not good to show partiality in judgment.

24 He who says to the wicked, "You are righteous,"
Him the people will curse;
Nations will abhor him.

25 But those who rebuke the wicked will have delight,
And a good blessing will come upon them.

26 He who gives a right answer kisses the lips.

27 Prepare your outside work,
Make it fit for yourself in the field;
And afterward build your house.

28 Do not be a witness against your neighbor without cause,
For would you deceive with your lips?

29 Do not say, "I will do to him just as he has done to me;
I will render to the man according to his work."

30 I went by the field of the lazy man,
And by the vineyard of the man devoid of understanding;

31 And there it was, all overgrown with thorns;
Its surface was covered with nettles;
Its stone wall was broken down.

32 When I saw it, I considered it well;
I looked on it and received instruction:

33 A little sleep, a little slumber,
A little folding of the hands to rest;

34 So shall your poverty come like a prowler,
And your need like an armed man.

Proverbs 25Further Wise Sayings of Solomon

1 These also are proverbs of Solomon which the men of Hezekiah king of Judah copied:

2 It is the glory of God to conceal a matter,
But the glory of kings is to search out a matter.

3 As the heavens for height and the earth for depth,
So the heart of kings is unsearchable.

4 Take away the dross from silver,
And it will go to the silversmith for jewelry.

5 Take away the wicked from before the king,
And his throne will be established in righteousness.

6 Do not exalt yourself in the presence of the king,
And do not stand in the place of the great;

7 For it is better that he say to you,
"Come up here,"
Than that you should be put lower in the presence of the prince,
Whom your eyes have seen.

8 Do not go hastily to court;
For what will you do in the end,
When your neighbor has put you to shame?

9 Debate your case with your neighbor,
And do not disclose the secret to another;

10 Lest he who hears it expose your shame,
And your reputation be ruined.

11 A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold
In settings of silver.

12 Like an earring of gold and an ornament of fine gold
Is a wise rebuker to an obedient ear.

13 Like the cold of snow in time of harvest
Is a faithful messenger to those who send him,
For he refreshes the soul of his masters.

14 Whoever falsely boasts of giving
Is like clouds and wind without rain.

15 By long forbearance a ruler is persuaded,
And a gentle tongue breaks a bone.

16 Have you found honey?
Eat only as much as you need,
Lest you be filled with it and vomit.

17 Seldom set foot in your neighbor's house,
Lest he become weary of you and hate you.

18 A man who bears false witness against his neighbor
Is like a club, a sword, and a sharp arrow.

19 Confidence in an unfaithful man in time of trouble
Is like a bad tooth and a foot out of joint.

20 Like one who takes away a garment in cold weather,
And like vinegar on soda,
Is one who sings songs to a heavy heart.

21 If your enemy is hungry, give him bread to eat;
And if he is thirsty, give him water to drink;

22 For so you will heap coals of fire on his head,
And the LORD will reward you.

23 The north wind brings forth rain,
And a backbiting tongue an angry countenance.

24 It is better to dwell in a corner of a housetop,
Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.

25 As cold water to a weary soul,
So is good news from a far country.

26 A righteous man who falters before the wicked
Is like a murky spring and a polluted well.

27 It is not good to eat much honey;
So to seek one's own glory is not glory.

28 Whoever has no rule over his own spirit
Is like a city broken down, without walls.

Proverbs 26

1 As snow in summer and rain in harvest,
So honor is not fitting for a fool.

2 Like a flitting sparrow, like a flying swallow,
So a curse without cause shall not alight.

3 A whip for the horse,
A bridle for the donkey,
And a rod for the fool's back.

4 Do not answer a fool according to his folly,
Lest you also be like him.

5 Answer a fool according to his folly,
Lest he be wise in his own eyes.

6 He who sends a message by the hand of a fool
Cuts off his own feet and drinks violence.

7 Like the legs of the lame that hang limp
Is a proverb in the mouth of fools.

8 Like one who binds a stone in a sling
Is he who gives honor to a fool.

9 Like a thorn that goes into the hand of a drunkard
Is a proverb in the mouth of fools.

10 The great God who formed everything
Gives the fool his hire and the transgressor his wages.

11 As a dog returns to his own vomit,
So a fool repeats his folly.

12 Do you see a man wise in his own eyes?
There is more hope for a fool than for him.

13 The lazy man says, "There is a lion in the road!
A fierce lion is in the streets!"

14 As a door turns on its hinges,
So does the lazy man on his bed.

15 The lazy man buries his hand in the bowl;
It wearies him to bring it back to his mouth.

16 The lazy man is wiser in his own eyes
Than seven men who can answer sensibly.

17 He who passes by and meddles in a quarrel not his own
Is like one who takes a dog by the ears.

18 Like a madman who throws firebrands, arrows, and death,

19 Is the man who deceives his neighbor,
And says, "I was only joking!"

20 Where there is no wood, the fire goes out;
And where there is no talebearer, strife ceases.

21 As charcoal is to burning coals, and wood to fire,
So is a contentious man to kindle strife.

22 The words of a talebearer are like tasty trifles,
And they go down into the inmost body.

23 Fervent lips with a wicked heart
Are like earthenware covered with silver dross.

24 He who hates, disguises it with his lips,
And lays up deceit within himself;

25 When he speaks kindly, do not believe him,
For there are seven abominations in his heart;

26 Though his hatred is covered by deceit,
His wickedness will be revealed before the assembly.

27 Whoever digs a pit will fall into it,
And he who rolls a stone will have it roll back on him.

28 A lying tongue hates those who are crushed by it,
And a flattering mouth works ruin.


Proverbs 24:1-26:28

v. 1 Do not be envious of evil men – Solomon warns against desiring the glamorous lives of worldly people. He describes their ultimate fate in v. 20.

v. 3 Through wisdom a house is built – Houses are constructed using well-defined plans and experienced craftsman. Just as a house is built through wisdom, so also is the character of a person. Just as wisdom can build a strong house, it can build a strong person as well.

v. 7 Wisdom is too lofty for a fool – Solomon contrasts a foolish person with a wise person in this verse. A foolish person is too self-willed to learn from anyone or anything. They even mock wisdom and understanding.

v. 10 If you faint in the day of adversity – A person's spirit is tested in adversity. When adversity strikes, the true character of a person is brought to life. The person with wisdom is strong (v. 5) and will be able to stand in the face of life's trials.

v. 14 So shall the knowledge of wisdom be to your soul – Wisdom is compared to honey and the honeycomb in this verse. Honey is natural and was one of the sweetest foods in the Jewish diet. Those who obtain wisdom will savor its sweetness in their souls just as a person who eats honey will savor its sweetness in his mouth.

v. 16 For a righteous man may fall seven times And rise again – The righteous man possesses an inner fortitude that the wicked lack. It is important to note that a righteous man will fall at times, but they are distinguished in that they always get back up.

v. 28 Do not be a witness against your neighbor without cause – A person who falsely accuses another is an abomination to God (Prov. 6:19).

v. 31 Its surface was covered with nettles – A nettle is a type of weed that will flourish everywhere if it is not dealt with. Solomon describes the field of a lazy man as overgrown with thorns and nettles, and with broken stone walls. The sluggard does not maintain his field and it is overcome by weeds and erosion. This illustration is used to describe the condition of a soul that has been overrun by neglect.

Proverbs 25

v. 1 the men of Hezekiah king of Judah copied – King Hezekiah reigned more then 200 years after Solomon. The revival experienced during his reign might explain Hezekiah's interest in compiling Solomon's proverbs. Hezekiah had court-sponsored sages who gathered and compiled wisdom sayings.

v. 4 Take away the dross from silver – Dross is another term for waste. Removing the dross from silver is a picture of purification. Silversmiths would purify the silver using iron oxide and heating it to a temperature of 1,640 degrees Fahrenheit.

v. 6 Do not exalt yourself in the presence of the king – Verses 6 and 7 are a warning to ambitious men who presume to be greater then they are. Solomon warns them to take a lower seat and wait to be called up, rather then taking a high seat and being asked to take a lower one. Jesus reiterates these sentiments in Luke 14:7-11.

v. 11 is like apples of gold – This metaphor compares finely crafted jewelry to saying the right words at the right times. Just as the golden apple designed with a silver setting draws the eye so also a clever saying touches the mind.

v. 13 Like the cold of snow in time of harvest – Harvest occurred in the late summer months in Israel. Some suggest that the workers laboring in the heat would have welcomed snow as a means to cool down. Others think this verse is referring to packaged snow or ice brought down from the mountains and used to refresh and cool down the harvesters.

v. 20 like vinegar on soda – Putting vinegar on soda causes a reaction, just as taking a coat away from a person in cold weather. So also is it cruel to sing happy songs to a sad person.

v. 28 Is like a city broken down, without walls – A city without walls was considered defenseless and disgraced.

Proverbs 26

v. 1 Snow in summer – These descriptions show things that are out of place. Summer is not known for its snow, neither is harvest a time of rain. Likewise, honor and foolishness are not found together.

v. 2 Curse without cause – The sense here is that this type of cursing (or bitterness, anger) will not have direction, just as the erratic flying of a swallow overhead will do no harm.

v. 3 Whip for the horse – Stubborn animals require motivation to change their behavior. God will use any means at His disposal to influence the decision making of the foolish man (including animals, see Num. 22).

v. 4 Answer a fool – There are two ways that we can respond to a fool. We can correct him in love with truth and righteousness so that he will not be "wise in his own eyes" and continue down his path of destruction. The second manner is to ignore the fool so as not to be pulled down to this level of foolishness.

v. 6 Cuts off his own feet – To have a message relayed by a foolish person is asking for trouble. The messenger cannot be trusted to relay the message correctly, if at all. The damage then is done to the sender as well as the hearers.

v. 7 Legs of the lame – Like the limbs of a paralyzed person that do not have any function, the wise saying is of no useful purpose when delivered by a fool.

v. 8 Binds a stone in a sling – A person who gives honor to a fool is simply giving him more ammunition to carry on in his foolishness.

v. 9 Thorn in the hand of a drunkard – A drunk man is generally considered to be numb to any sort of physical pain. In a sober person, a thorn in the hand would elicit a pain response. A proverb spoken by a fool would not elicit any sort of a response from anyone.

v. 10 Transgressor his wages – This is a warning that everyone who rejects the saving grace of God will receive their just due. He is faithful, merciful, and just in His decisions. Each person chooses their inheritance based on their relationship with the One who formed everything.

v. 11 Dog returns to his vomit – Solomon compares the filthiness of sin with the vomit of a dog. It is inevitable that a dog will venture back to investigate; likewise a foolish man will repeat his foolish acts. A sinner who has not been converted will after a time return to the sin life, forgetting how it made him sick. (see 2 Peter 2:18-22 for the apostle's commentary on this verse as applied to false teachers)

v. 12 Wise in his own eyes – At the heart of man's rebellion is the pride of life. People with a high value of self often have a difficult time with faith in the saving grace of God, as He requires repentance from worldly pride and self glorification (1 John 2:16). Despite the repeated warnings against foolishness, it is easier to be delivered from folly than pride.

v. 13 Lion in the streets – The lion is an imaginary one. Any excuse is used to avoid going to work. Note that the excuse worsens as it is retold when the lion becomes a fierce lion.

v. 14 Door on its hinges – The swinging from side to side is used to conjure up a picture of a man with no likelihood of going anywhere other than turning over in bed. Like a door on a frame, he appears to be hung on his bed. The slothful man loves the ease of life.

v. 15 Back to his mouth – The image is one that describes a man that is too lazy to even lift his hand from the bowl to feed himself.

v. 16 In his own eyes – A prideful person will often not listen to reason, despite the number of witnesses to the contrary. Man will powerfully defend what he sees is right in his own eyes (Deut. 12:8, Judges 17:6).

v. 17 Quarrel not his own – It is an understatement to say that grabbing a dog by the ears would be a handful of trouble, as would jumping into an argument that does not pertain to you. The idea is that by just passing by, the person involving himself would not be aware of the complicated matter of the discussion, and so would lack the facts.

v. 18-19 Deceives his neighbor – Only a crazy person would scatter destruction without any regard as to the consequences. The man who deliberately deceives another and then passes it off as a practical joke has no sense of the ramifications of his actions. Such things could lead to disastrous results. On the contrary, the Lord instructs His people to love one another (Mark 12:31, Gal. 5:14).

v. 20 Fire goes out – Fuel (in this case, wood) is one of the three necessary elements to fuel a fire. Once this critical element is removed, the fire ceases to exist. Once the talebearer is removed, conflict will also cease to continue.

v. 21 Kindle strife – Contentious people will add conflict to a situation much like adding more combustible material onto an existing fire…it feeds the fire and keeps it alive.

v. 22 Words of a talebearer – Also whisperer, gossiper. These words are readily accepted because they are pleasing to the flesh, and delicious as sweets. Mankind loves to rise above others, so as gossip tears down another, it elevates self. (See Leviticus 19:16 for law regarding talebearers.)

v. 23 Covered with silver dross – A cheaper alternative to solid silver is a clay bowl covered in silver. The beauty of the outside of the vessel belies what is underneath…a cheap imitation disguised as something better. The words spoken by this person do not convey the true heart condition (Matt. 23:25-27).

v. 24 Hatred is covered by deceit – A deceiver will initially not be easy to recognize, as he covers his hatred with smooth words and flattering speech (Rom. 16:17-18). Wisdom will uncover the counterfeit and he will be revealed to all.

v. 27 Digs a pit – A pit was dug as a snare to catch animals that would fall into it. Large stones for building that were too heavy to carry were often rolled from quarry to building site. The irony here is that though the pit and the stone are intended for something else, they will be the destruction of the fool. Though he intends to catch his "prey" in the pit, he himself will be the one who is "caught" and judged by God (for an example, read the story of Haman in the book of Esther).

v. 28 Flattering mouth works ruin – The owner of the lying tongue and flattering mouth hates the object of his lies, but does it in such a way as to disguise it (see the betrayal of Judas in Mark 14:43-45).


"Whoever has no rule over his own spirit Is like a city broken down, without walls." –Proverbs 25:28

It is a true blessing, Lord, that we no longer have to strive to observe the many commandments of the Old Testament. Thank You, God, that we have the Holy Spirit to guide us; that we now are Your Temple here on Earth. But we also see in this verse, Lord, that if we do not have that salvation, that we have no protection from the sinful things of this world that seek to destroy us.


Freedom House

The Freedom House now has two residents who are learning a new way of life that is focused on their relationship with Jesus Christ. The ladies are developing healthy routines of prayer, Bible studies, church attendance, and fellowship. They also help out with the New Again Thrift Store that helps to support the house. Thanks to the wonderful crew of people who are giving the exterior of the house a fresh new coat of paint. And thanks again to everyone who has given from their hearts to this project.

Prayer Points
  • for grace for the women as their bodies, hearts, and minds heal from the ravages of addiction. Pray especially about anxiety, anger, and temptations.
  • for staff and volunteers
  • for more women to participate

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